If success is a process with a number of defined steps, then it is just like any other process.
More DetailCommit your decision to paper, just to bring it into focus. Then, go for it!
More DetailFocus is having the unwavering attention to complete what you set out to do. There are a million distractions in every facet of our lives.
The best way is to develop and follow a plan. Start with your goals in mind and then work backward to develop the plan. What steps are required to get you to the goals? Make the plan as detailed as possible. Try to visualize and then plan for, every possible setback. Commit the plan to paper and then keep it with you at all times. Review it regularly and ensure that every step takes you closer to your Vision and Goals. If the plan doesn’t support the vision then change it!
It is truly amazing the damage that we, as parents, can inflict on our children. So why do we do it? For the most part, we don’t do it intentionally or with malice. In the majority of cases, the cause is a well-meaning but unskilled or un-thinking parent, who says the wrong thing at the wrong time, and the message sticks – as simple as that!
I coach my clients to practice the 3 D’s – Defer, Delegate or Delete. Can the particular activity be done later? Defer it! Can it be done by someone else? Delegate it! Does it need to be done at all? If not, consider deleting it! Posing these questions will help to keep you focused on what is truly important!
Let success motivate you. Find a picture of what epitomizes success to you and then pull it out when you are in need of motivation.
Give yourself the power of responsibility. Remind yourself the only thing stopping you is yourself.
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